I thought I'd just take this opportunity to write this straight from the heart. See, I don't want any experts to be able to come at me with such remarks like, "What are your credentials?" "Who made you an authority on this subject matter?" Or any other remarks that may attempt to discredit me. So for those experts I say, I have over 30 years experience of dealing with women. From my own family members, school, the military, college, night clubs, bars, museums, super markets, the park, driving down the street, the gym, in my neighborhoods, work, and anywhere that a man can come in contact with a woman! I've seen just about every nationality have issues with their relationships. I've seen celebrities have issues with their relationships.
If you watch basketball enough, then play the game for a long time, and really study the game, then you could write a book about it if you wanted to. That's exactly what I did. I took my experiences and wrote about them. It doesn't make me an expert. What it makes me is someone who has observed many people, and who has taken the time to write about what I've seen, and experienced. It makes me a person with a voice.
I've been married twice. I have two great children named Marcel, and Myah. I still believe in marriage although I got it wrong two times. I still believe in love. I know there is someone in this world who will love me as I will love them.
My other works include a poetry book entitled, "Whispers In My Ear", and a CD that encompasses jazz, and romantic poetry, entitled, "Naturally You." The CD is very romantic and the music is very soothing.
I'm a person who believes no matter what you want to accomplish, as long as you have the mental strength to do it, it can be done. There are so many people who are one dimensional and keep their eyes straight ahead. I believe in pausing, and absorbing all that is around me. I know we as a people can accomplish so much more together than apart. We just have to focus on what is important, and sacrifice that which is not.
I'm learning that in a committed relationship, the possibilities are endless if only two people can stop with the game playing on each other and realize their potential. I desire for women, and men, to take what they have read here, and start to apply it. The information here will only help to strengthen what is already there.
Currently, I'm living in Southern California. Hopefully, I'll be here writing for as many years ahead of me, as I have behind me.
Good luck to each and everyone of you. Look out for the screenplay to be hitting a local theatre one day soon!
Nelson D. Brown Jr.ã2005
I can also be contacted at Nufsaid01@yahoo.com or